Taylor Swift reminds me of a girl who hasn't dated much in her life, even if she is a way-too-hot-for-you kind of celebrity. Recently, an interview of hers was published in Seventeen magazine and, like all things in Seventeen, it was batshit insane:
"Don't chance ruining your friendship by chasing him before he's ready. You just have to wait for him to turn it into something more, if and when he wants to."
Unfortunately, most girls want to date guys, not stalk them until they ultimately marry someone who is more outgoing and attractive. My advice? Get some balls and ask a guy to go out for coffee. A movie. An orgy. Worst case scenario you get denied and you can still be friends. Best case scenario, you'll have your pants off in 20 minutes.